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The Origins and History of Christmas in Africa...
Christmas, a celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ, holds a special place in the hearts of many Africans. Its origins on the continent are deeply intertwined with the history of Christianity, which was introduced through various means, including trade, colonization, and missionary work. Introduction of Christianity in Africa Christianity first entered Africa in the 1st century AD with the early church's presence in Egypt. The Coptic Orthodox Church of Alexandria stands as
3 days ago3 min read


Criminal are using Execution as Intimidation: The Deadly Price of Being Honest in South Africa…
The brutal shooting of Witness D outside his home, reportedly in front of his partner and children, is not an isolated horror; it is the latest tragic punctuation in a wider pattern that turns those who dare to expose wrongdoing into targets. Whether labelled whistleblowers, witnesses, investigators or anti‑corruption activists, those who lift the veil on malfeasance in South Africa increasingly face assassination-style killings that do more than silence one voice: they send
Dec 74 min read


Unveiling the Hidden Challenges: Navigating Temptations and Abuse of Power and Position in different Work Environments...
In today's society, certain professions face unfair stigmatization due to perceived and real moral dilemmas. These jobs, often used and abused by both men and wome alike, include delivery services, massage therapy, events hosting, and personal assistance, among others. The reality is that these professions can expose both men and women to environments where they may encounter inappropriate behavior or propositions. While not every individual in these roles faces such challeng
Dec 46 min read


Identifying and Understanding a Good Man: An Open Letter to Women…
Dearest Ladies, In today’s world, the concept of a "good man" often gets lost in translation. Many women claim to desire a good man, yet when they encounter one, the reality can be overwhelming. This letter aims to shed light on what defines a good man, the challenges he presents, and how understanding these traits can empower women to foster meaningful relationships with men of substance. 1. A Good Man is Not Soft or Convenient A common misconception is that a good man shoul
Nov 274 min read


The Art of Courting: A Man’s Guide to Navigating Love with Dignity…
Hola Majita… As an experienced man who has navigated the complexities of relationships for over three decades of my five decades in this thing called life, I feel compelled to share insights that may help you on your journey toward finding genuine love. In a world filled with fleeting connections and superficial interactions, understanding how to approach courtship with dignity and respect is essential. Once you have expressed your interest and she has reciprocated by exchang
Nov 203 min read


Unmasking the Illusion: The Disturbing Reality of Beauty Standards Among African Women…
In a world where beauty is often dictated by unattainable standards, the plight of African women serves as a poignant reminder of the insidious influence of societal expectations. For generations, they have been led to believe that their natural appearance—rich in cultural heritage and authenticity—is somehow inferior. This deception has transformed into an alarming obsession with artificial beauty, driving many to forsake their true selves in pursuit of a distorted ideal tha
Nov 203 min read


Easy Come, Easy Go: Understanding the Transience of Life's Gains...
The phrase “easy come, easy go” captures the essence of how quickly and effortlessly gained possessions or relationships can be lost. This notion transcends various aspects of life, from financial gains to personal relationships, highlighting the impermanence that often accompanies what comes too easily. One of the most common manifestations of this concept is seen in financial windfalls, such as lottery winnings. Many individuals who suddenly acquire large sums of money ofte
Nov 186 min read


Unlocking Love: 10 Essential Signs That You've Found Your Soulmate…
In the journey of love, many seek a connection that transcends the ordinary—a bond that feels effortless, profound, and genuine. The search for a soulmate is often filled with excitement, uncertainty, and hope. But how can you discern if the person by your side is truly your soulmate? Recognizing the signs of a deep, meaningful relationship can illuminate the path to understanding your connection’s true potential. Here, we explore ten indicators that may suggest you’ve found
Jul 245 min read


The Importance of Transparency in Relationships: A Guide for Men and Women…
In the intricate dance of building a relationship, whether it be romantic, platonic, or professional, transparency plays a pivotal role. It lays the foundation for trust, intimacy, and understanding between partners. In today’s fast-paced world, where relationships can often become muddied by misunderstandings and assumptions, clear communication and openness are essential. This article explores the significance of transparency in relationships, presenting both the pros and c
Jul 234 min read


The Hole of Humanity: A Reflection on True Help and the Reality of African Society…
In the journey of life, we often find ourselves in metaphorical holes—situations where we feel trapped, helpless, and in desperate need of assistance. A powerful story illustrates this experience vividly: a man falls into a deep hole by the roadside. Despite his cries for help, passersby offer nothing but empty assurances. They promise aid, but only once he is out. It isn’t until another man jumps into the hole that true assistance is offered, but this man doesn’t just come w
Jul 175 min read


Reclaiming Time: Breaking Free from the Chains of a Manipulated Calendar…
In a world governed by clocks and calendars, the very notion of time has become a tool of control, distorting our perception of reality. The calendar we adhere to today, primarily the Gregorian calendar, is not merely a way to mark days and months; it represents a historical and cultural construct that has often disconnected us from our authentic existence. As we navigate our daily lives, we must question the validity of this imposed structure and consider the deeper implicat
Jul 153 min read


Unmasking the Roots of Xenophobia: The Systematic Collapse of South Africa…
Xenophobia in South Africa is often framed as a social ailment, yet it is a symptom of a much deeper and systemic crisis. This article aims to highlight the external and internal forces contributing to South Africa's socio-economic struggles, emphasising the deliberate actions of foreign governments and businesses that have perpetuated instability. Moreover, it confronts the racial disparities in how crime is perceived and prosecuted, revealing the uncomfortable truths that s
Jul 144 min read


The Hidden Cost of Alcohol Consumption in Our Communities…
Alcohol has become a pervasive presence in many communities across the African continent, often marketed as a source of relaxation, socialisation, and celebration. However, beneath this facade lies a more sinister reality: alcohol consumption has devastating effects on individuals and their communities, perpetuating a cycle of control and exploitation.
Jul 93 min read


The Double-Edged Sword: Unraveling the Dark Side of Money…
In a world driven by commerce and currency, the concept of money holds an unparalleled grip on human existence. It is often heralded as a necessity for survival and a key to prosperity. Yet, beneath its glittering facade lies a disturbing truth: money is the root of many evils plaguing humanity. From fostering greed to inciting violence, the influence of money has led us down a treacherous path. This article explores ten practical examples that illustrate how money has become
Jul 93 min read


Navigating the Complexities of Step-Parenting: A Call for Caution and Awareness…
The concept of step-parenting has gained traction in today’s society, often romanticized as a noble endeavor. However, the reality is far more complex. While many individuals genuinely seek to be loving and supportive figures in the lives of their partner's children, there are critical aspects that must be considered before taking on this significant role. This article aims to shed light on the often-overlooked challenges of being a step-parent, particularly in situations whe
Jul 73 min read


Five Essential Lessons for Women: Cultivating Strong Relationships and Personal Growth…
In today's fast-paced world, many women find themselves navigating the complexities of romantic relationships while striving to become the best versions of themselves. Often, the fear of losing a good man can lead to complacency, misunderstandings, and decisions that may not serve their long-term happiness. As someone who has interacted with women over the past three decades, I have gathered valuable insights that can help women avoid becoming mere statistics in the dating la
Jun 264 min read


The Truth Behind Father’s Day: A Reflection on Marginalization and Commercialisation…
The Truth Behind Father’s Day: A Reflection on Marginalization and Commercialization As the peoples of the world celebrate Father’s Day,...
Jun 154 min read


Healing Hearts: The Power of Two Broken Souls…
In life, we often encounter pain and heartache. It’s a part of the human experience that can feel overwhelming at times. Heartbreak can stem from lost relationships, betrayal, or even the loss of a loved one. However, what if I told you that sometimes, broken hearts can find solace in each other? When two individuals who have suffered come together, they can create a bond that fosters healing, protection, and lasting love.
Jun 54 min read


The Devil’s Dilemma: Women at the Crossroads of Prostitution and Addiction…
In today’s society, many women find themselves trapped in a cycle of despair, forced to make unimaginable choices to survive. As we navigate the bustling streets of cities and towns, it is disheartening to witness the stark reality: women either selling their bodies through prostitution or succumbing to the grips of drug addiction. This article seeks to critically examine the dire consequences of our current economic climate that have led to this grim predicament, highlightin
Jun 54 min read


Open Letter to Women Seeking Healing and Men Navigating Relationships with Chaotic Partners…
Dear Women and Men,
May 102 min read
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